Last night Molly and I made the trek north to see Dad, Debbie, and Dillon. My brother John was driving in from Oklahoma and we all wanted to get together. (John by the way went to a tanning booth and got sunburn. Molly asked him why he went to a tanning booth to which John replied he had a lot of weddings coming up, Molly quickly replied, “What are you a chick?) Regardless, as is often times the case with my Dad, the conversation quickly went from some political jostling to music; as different as our views in politics are, it pails in comparison to our difference in opinion of music.
But last night I heard the words a son never wants to hear from his Father…
“I’ve started watching American Idol.”
Yes, as my Father is sitting there espousing the relative merit of the glory days of Arena Rock… asking if we have anyone that can fill out a stadium the way Pink Floyd did? Remembering the 70’s, Skynnard, Led Zeppelin, and his Disco Sucks t-shirt, as he tells us regarding American Idol, “If you watch on Tuesday, you can’t miss Wednesday.” He even mentioned his new found love for the Plain White T’s and Cobie Caillat. In between telling us how he took Dillon to his first big concert, Slipknot, he can’t help but talk about Danny Gokey, the contestant who he thinks looks a little like me, and who’s sad personal story has really impacted Dad.
It was such a bizarre conversation.
Regardless of the American Idol piece, the part of the conversation regarding great Arena Rock vs. the music of today struck a chord with me. My Dad has plans to see Motley Crue and Van Halen next time they come around, and was asking if any of the “newer” bands could fill a stadium. Molly, John, and I came up with a few: Dave Matthews Band (again it hurts for me to say that), U2, and Radiohead… but relatively speaking, their just weren’t a bunch… and I’m not sure any of those bands really count as new, U2 and Motley Crue first released albums within a few years of each other.
I thought about that a little more this morning, and was reading an article in the New York Times about SXSW: http://www.nytimes.com/2009/03/21/arts/music/21sxsw.html?_r=1
Without getting to philosophical about the whole thing, I think I have an answer about why there are no new more Arena Rock bands. Well two answers. One, my Dad and I have different musical tastes, and I prefer a smaller show so I just don’t listen to anything that big. Second, I think music has gotten smaller. I’m pretty sure my Dad paid a buck fifty to see Pink Floyd at Texas Stadium. I put down a buck fifty to see like 50 something bands at Austin City Limits Music Festival. And at that, bands I wanted to see: Wilco, Lucinda Williams, Rilo Kiley, etc. The 90’s not only killed the excess of big hair metal, it killed the big show. No one wanted to see Nirvana play Texas Stadium, it would have been icky. It’s not that they don’t exist; I think the need for Arena Rock Bands has ceased to exist… well at least for now.
Just my thoughts.
I’ll have to call Dad this week and see if he voted for Danny.